I DEAL IN REALITY

This service deals in honesty and reality.  If you are calling to hear someone only confirm what you think, this is probably not the service for you.  I accept or reject clients both according to the preferences and criteria of my clients and whether your goal lines up with my clientele and you understand my structure and philosophy.

A woman called this morning and when I asked her age (63) she right away said I DO NOT WANT TO MEET MEN THAT AGE.  I LOOK GREAT AND THEY WOULD NEVER KNOW MY AGE!  My answer is…first of all I’m not accepting women over 55 at the moment because men in that age range often want to date younger women so they are not going to go up to 63 regardless of what you look like.  She then proceeded to tell me how superficial my men are after just declaring the EXACT SAME THING!  She wasn’t going to give anyone near her age range a chance…because she wants what she wants…no different than the men.

I merely try to explain my clientele, compare it with what you are looking for and tell the truth.  I know that is a novel concept these days but I actually tell the truth as it is at that point in time.  My experience with both men and women is they want what they want for the most part.  If I find that not in line with my clients or unrealistic I will suggest this is not the service for you.  Remember, I am talking specifically about my clientele, not the whole world.

Even after 34 years I’m still learning about people.  Many people just want someone to agree with their perspective and if you don’t, they get mad.  If that is you and you don’t want the facts and the truth save yourself a phone call and I wish you the best of luck.  There are tons of local services who will gladly say whatever you want to hear to get your money…