Of primary concern is keeping my clients as safe as possible from scammers, liars, felons and criminals. When someone calls for my matchmaking service, at my expense, I conduct a background check on them. I look at all social media as well as use a paid service to conduct those.
How do I keep clients safe? If I find info that is inconsistent with what the person has told me and/or if I find concerning information in their background check, I decline to work with them. A couple of months ago two guys called for Bon Jour, I did background checks and found concerning information, so I declined to work with them. They actually totally understood…
A couple of things that should be noted…I can’t find out if that person is a jerk unfortunately. I recently had a guy call who said he was only going to give Denver 2 months to see if it works out. When going to his Facebook profile it showed lots of friends here and activities, so I don’t know what he’s talking about. Also, his background check showed that he’s moved many times throughout the country showing a lack of stability as well as a couple of other concerning things. I have also had several older men call and lie about their age looking to meet younger women. Don’t work with them either!
Another thing you can’t count on background checks for…just because it may show no criminal activity that may only mean they haven’t been caught yet. Serial offenders can only be serial if they haven’t been caught. So always be careful when dealing with new people.
That said, in the 34 years I’ve been practicing personal matchmaking I have never had an issue…probably because of all of the background checking that I do.
Open-ended contract…you are a client until…until you reach your goal;
One Matchmaker who knows ALL of her clients;
You are ONLY introduced to my clients who I’ve met personally, interviewed and who have had a background check;
34 years of experience in Colorado matchmaking;
Feedback both positive and negative to assist you;
Background checks at MY expense on every client;
Coaching to correct unproductive and unsuccessful dating patterns;
Extensive profiles with current photos for clients to view;
Collaborative effort between client and Matchmaker;
Clients decide who they are interested in meeting after I select appropriate profiles that fit on both sides;
VERY reasonable investment fee based on each individual client’s situation;
Make your investment fee back if you get married, move or leave Bon Jour.
These are just the highlights. Please read through this web site to gain more in-depth information.
Presumably if you are considering hiring a Denver matchmaker it’s because you have not had success on your own. Either because of the venues you’ve chosen or things you have done that didn’t work.
When you hire any professional you defer to their experience and wisdom or else what is the point in working with them? The more experience they have, the more you should trust them.
With 34 years under my belt and my one-on-one, hands-on approach I see how clients react to profiles and the pictures. If someone calls for Bon Jour Matchmaking’s free phone consultation and argues with me about my different types of approach, first of all this is not the service for them. Secondly, I can see the writing on the wall that this will be a difficult client, impossible to please, who will fight me every inch of the way.
This is not a service with multiple “matchmakers”. It’s all me, so I know the clients and how they react to profiles and pictures. If you are considering Bon Jour you need to understand and accept my structure and approach. If you argue with me before even becoming a client, then this is not the service for you. Two potential clients just did that, and I decided not to work with either of them. My clients “get it”…