I’m flattered that so many people decide to call me first when they are doing their due diligence researching “matchmaking” services. Let me start by saying that they all call themselves “matchmaking” services when in reality they are merely DATING services. DATING services sell packages of dates for a finite period of time then if […]
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DATING FRENZY OR A MATE
I regularly read reviews of other services, not just local but national. I’m not taking up for these services per se, however I have a problem with people complaining they didn’t get the “right” matches for them or enough matches. One person wrote a service claimed to have I think 500 potential matches and “only” […]
FINDING A MATE IS LIKE BUYING A HOME
When I was searching for my home there were very specific things I wanted and specifically did not want. The home had to have air conditioning and a foyer. I absolutely did not want a basement. Well, the home I fell in love with did not have air or a foyer and it did have […]
WHY THIS MATCHMAKER’S OPEN ENDED CONTRACT IS INVALUABLE
(Click on the blue print to go to Post) About 11 years ago I met a lovely woman at a party in Cherry Creek. She was and is a sophisticated, intelligent, accomplished and extremely attractive person. She was single and I was pointed out to her as someone she might like to get to know. […]
Fees of Denver Dating Services vs. Bon Jour Matchmaking Service
(Please click on the blue print to go to Posts) Bon Jour Matchmaking Service is owned and operated by me/myself/and I, Michele the Matchmaker. There are no other employees working on commission, there is no fancy office space, no advertising and as little overhead as is possible to run a business, consequently Bon Jour is […]
TIPS FOR SELECTING A GOOD MATCHMAKER
The Good Matchmaker We tend to measure a successful matchmaker by the number of marriages that result from her suggestions. However, there are many matchmakers who are held in high esteem by their clients, even though their suggestion-to-marriage ratio isn’t that high. They’re the matchmakers who really listen to their clients, make suggestions that are […]
LET ME HELP YOU CORRECT INEFFECTIVE DATING PATTERNS
I’ve received feedback about my Blog that people love my anecdotal stories as they help clarify my points. So to illuminate this point…I have found with some of my clients that they have a regular routine of some kind that they don’t change when they come in here and meet potential mates. Whether it be […]
THINK LONG TERM, BE REALISTIC and BE HUMAN WHEN DATING
I have recently been in contact with a guy I dated in my twenties. He’s now in his sixties. One of the things that got on my nerves when we dated was that he worked out obsessively every day, 7 days a week and anything else was put on the back burner. Well, it turns […]
THE BEST CHOICE…AN UNMARRIED DENVER MATCHMAKER
(Click on bright blue print to go to Posts) Periodically people ask me if I’m not married how can I coach and match make others. My response is…if I had been married for years how would I remember or even know the ups and downs, frustrations, disappointments or current choices for finding a mate? I […]
NOTHING TAKES THE PLACE OF CHEMISTRY
One only needs to watch The Bachelor each season from start to finish to see that nothing takes the place of chemistry. At the beginning when there is a bevy of gorgeous women and hunky men the viewer may pick out who they personally feel are the best looking ones and assume those are the […]
