SINGLES USE THIS DENVER MATCHMAKER FIRST FOR COACHING AND SECOND TO MEET THEIR MATE

Many of my clients have no trouble meeting people, however they do have trouble sealing the deal.  Being an objective source to their actions I am in a perfect position to point out behavior that is undermining their success. For example, texting has been around for at least 10 years but I strongly discourage clients […]

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WHAT’S THE BIG DEAL ABOUT THIS DENVER MATCHMAKER vs. INTERNET DATING SITES?

Click on the blue print to go to Post or Page Wow, where to start… Because I meet with and interview every client in my service I can speculate that they have no criminal history (which I check prior to any interview), that they are sincere and serious about finding a mate, that they can […]

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A TOTALLY DIFFERENT DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICE

I’m getting ready to celebrate my 30th anniversary practicing Denver matchmaking.  I don’t need any more practice I have it down LOL.  Some facts about Bon Jour Matchmaking Service:  (Please click on the blue print to go to Posts or Pages) This is an old fashioned matchmaking service with ONE professional Denver matchmaker; My goal is […]

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DON’T SHOOT THE DENVER MATCHMAKER (MESSENGER)

If you read through the bulk of the reviews of many Denver dating services and Denver matchmakers you will see a consistent theme.  That the people who used them were not introduced to people who fulfilled their criteria and preferences.  That is constant across the board…except for Bon Jour Matchmaking Service.  Don’t think there’s even […]

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YES, THIS DENVER MATCHMAKER ACTUALLY TURNS DOWN INCOME

In the past two weeks I have declined to work with about 10 singles who called for Bon Jour Matchmaking.  In case it is not clear that means I turned down a minimum of $20,000 in income! WHY?  It’s called being ethical.  I know that is a foreign term in these days of greed, but […]

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WHY YOU MAY NOT BE THE RIGHT CLIENT FOR THIS DENVER MATCHMAKER

Singles hire a matchmaker because they are having trouble of some kind in their interactions with dating.  Yes, it is to find the right person who has as yet been elusive, but there may be many things you yourself are doing that derail, curtail or just plain prevent successful long term relationships. One glaring example […]

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AS A SEASONED DENVER MATCHMAKER TRUST ME ABOUT THIS…

While practicing professional matchmaking since 1989 and seeing which clients marry and which do not, as I mentioned many times in this Blog, stop looking for perfection. Whether you use the Internet dating sites, Meet Up,  matchmakers or whatever if your standards are so high that either you can’t find people to fit them or […]

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WHY DOES BON JOUR TURN DOWN CLIENTS?

Our first interaction on the telephone or if you send me an email starts our journey to discover whether Bon Jour Matchmaking is the right Denver matchmaker for you and you are the right client for the service…whether, as your very personal matchmaker, I feel I can reasonably meet your expectations or I fear you […]

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I’M A DENVER MATCHMAKER WITH HEART AND EMPATHY

As I tell my clients, I do all that I can to stack the deck in your favor as a client.  Meaning being selective of who I present to you based on both your preferences and background as well as theirs.  Selecting photos that while they present you in your best light DO look like […]

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THE CLIENTS OF BON JOUR MATCHMAKING SERVICE

Without exception clients of Bon Jour Matchmaking have several common personality traits and goals. All of them are serious about finding their last relationship…whether it be through marriage or LTCR (long term committed relationship).  As their Denver matchmaker I put them through the “ringer” with an extensive questionnaire and Behavioral Agreement where they agree to […]

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