You would think selecting people to meet or getting people to follow through on meetings might be the most difficult part of this business. Because of the Behavioral Agreement that every client signs these are not issues in Bon Jour Matchmaking Service.

Being the ONLY Denver matchmaking service that shares pictures of all clients, it is like pulling teeth to get new clients to get me pictures. No matter how much direction I give them, examples I send them…they ignore those and send me what they want, if they send them in a timely manner at all.

Some new clients have up to 3 or 4 weeks before their interview to get me their pictures, but they inevitably wait until the very last minute, and as stated above, often don’t follow instructions. After 33+ years of watching clients view profiles and pictures, I certainly know what types of pictures turn them on and turn them off.

If you decide to make an investment both financially and emotionally to work with me, then the picture aspect is very important. You only do it once, for the most part, unless something substantial in your appearance changes and then you would have to update.

But one of the BEST aspects of Bon Jour aside from the extensive profiles you view are the pictures! Make it fun! Take a couple of hours with a friend and take LOTS of pictures, then send me the best ones for me to choose which I think will work the best for you. It’s that simple.

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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