I’D RATHER DECLINE THAN DISAPPOINT Your Denver Matchmaking Desires

As I’ve written many times on this website, I turned down more potential clients (and income) than I accept.  If I sense that this really is not what you are looking for in a service or potential relationship (doesn’t line up with my clientele) I would rather decline to work together than sign you and […]

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YOU ASK, WHAT IS MY SUCCESS RATE?

Very often when people contact me at Bon Jour Matchmaking one of the questions they ask is what is my success rate. My success rate has everything to do with you as a client.  If you turn down everyone who would like to meet you, don’t select people to meet who are the best prospects […]

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A REAL, LIVE MATCHMAKER and “Matchmaking Services” Who Sell Dates

WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE? Let me count the ways that I am different from all those “matchmaking services” who sell packages of dates!  First of all that says it right there…they sell packages of DATES so they are DENVER DATING SERVICES NOT MATCHMAKERS. Why, why, why would anyone pay thousands of dollars to let someone you’ve met […]

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THIS MAKES FOR A POOR CLIENT

I’ve written many Posts about what makes a good client but after my interaction this morning with a current client who is the perfect example of a poor client I’ve decided to explain. Before you meet anyone in Bon Jour you have to have a good relationship with me.  I am your agent, coach, matchmaker […]

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QUESTIONS YOU SHOULD ASK A DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICE BEFORE YOU JOIN

I’m flattered that so many people decide to call me first when they are doing their due diligence researching “matchmaking” services.  Let me start by saying that they all call themselves “matchmaking” services when in reality they are merely DATING services.  DATING services sell packages of dates for a finite period of time then if […]

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THE BEST DENVER MATCHMAKER SINCE 1989!

When I began my service in 1989 the only other service was Great Expectations.  As a single 33 year old I didn’t like the structure or philosophy of GE so I did the total opposite in my service. Prospective clients call me every day and one of the main comments they make is that after […]

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BEWARE OF FAKE MATCHMAKERS ONLY IN IT FOR THE MONEY

I am often contacted by people calling themselves matchmakers, usually from outside of Colorado, wanting me to set up THEIR clients with my clients.  I don’t know their clients, haven’t met or interviewed their client, don’t know the quality of their clients and don’t know them or their service. SOME GENERAL ADVICE:  Do not join […]

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Colorado veteran charged nearly $10,000 by dating service

I was sent this thread from a client who thought I might find it of interest…not knowing I’ve seen this type of thing before about this service. https://kdvr.com/2018/11/05/colorado-veteran-charged-nearly-10000-by-dating-service/amp/ Yet another investigation of this “dating service”.  Although the practices of Mile Hi Singles a/k/a Great Expectations make me sick, consumers need to be more diligent.  As […]

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SINGLES USE THIS DENVER MATCHMAKER FIRST FOR COACHING AND SECOND TO MEET THEIR MATE

Many of my clients have no trouble meeting people, however they do have trouble sealing the deal.  Being an objective source to their actions I am in a perfect position to point out behavior that is undermining their success. For example, texting has been around for at least 10 years but I strongly discourage clients […]

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