In the 33+ years I’ve been matchmaking, the one component that people who meet a mate possess is…they don’t raise their standards just because they are in a service. All of the Bon Jour Matchmaking Service clients who married (600+ people, 300+ couples) were realistic in their expectations and chose matches that they would choose …
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I receive many calls from singles wondering if I will consider working with them even though they do not fall within some of the stipulations presented on this website. Especially when it comes to age, they share how youthful they are, how they date people much, much younger, etc. Specifically related to the age range …
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Bon Jour Matchmaking Service Designs a Fee Just For YOU Rather than charging a flat fee for all clients, at Bon Jour Matchmaking Service I have decided, after 33 years of matchmaking, that your investment should reflect specific components of each client’s situation. There is a one-time investment that is good for as long as …
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First of all, remember I’ve been matchmaking for 34 years so I have a lot of history to draw from. When I share info about singles who call me and either become clients or not, I am referring strictly to MY clientele NOT the whole world. Over these many years I have gotten calls from …
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Singles hire a matchmaker because they are having trouble of some kind in their interactions with dating. Yes, it is to find the right person who has as yet been elusive, but there may be many things you yourself are doing that derail, curtail or just plain prevent successful long term relationships. One glaring example …
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(Click on the blue print to go to Post) I attended a Christmas party where there was a bevy of successful and attractive women over 55. There are lots of interesting, attractive, fit and energetic women over 55 and it seemed many of them were there. No, this was not a singles party, it was …
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People constantly ask me whether matchmaking is lucrative and how much money I make. They seem to want to judge this vocation by monetary success rather than what the basis of my chosen vocation is which is how many people working with me have reached their life goal of finding a mate. The reason I …
According to a 2013 Questionnaire, Denver Singles Responded Like This… Would you date or not date someone based on their job? Generally singles said it depends on the job and how much time it would allow for the relationship. Mostly they want to meet someone who has passion for their career. Is it polite to …
Michele the Matchmaker Shares Excerpts From 5280 Magazine’s Article from February, 2009 (Click on the blue print to go to Posts) No. 1: Lack of Dating Know-How: Few things about dating are more apparent than this. We are just plain bad at it. It’s not that we’ve learned the rules and tossed them out the window. …
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All one needs to do is watch the Bachelor or Bachelorette to see that dating is NOT a numbers game. In fact, if you are serious about finding love, dating is not a “game” at all. To “play” with dating is to lose in your ultimate goal and burn yourself out in the process! Those …
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