AS A SEASONED DENVER MATCHMAKER TRUST ME ABOUT THIS…

While practicing professional matchmaking since 1989 and seeing which clients marry and which do not, as I mentioned many times in this Blog, stop looking for perfection. Whether you use the Internet dating sites, Meet Up,  matchmakers or whatever if your standards are so high that either you can’t find people to fit them or […]

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WHY DOES BON JOUR TURN DOWN CLIENTS?

Our first interaction on the telephone or if you send me an email starts our journey to discover whether Bon Jour Matchmaking is the right Denver matchmaker for you and you are the right client for the service…whether, as your very personal matchmaker, I feel I can reasonably meet your expectations or I fear you […]

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DATING FRENZY OR A MATE

I regularly read reviews of other services, not just local but national.  I’m not taking up for these services per se, however I have a problem with people complaining they didn’t get the “right” matches for them or enough matches.  One person wrote a service claimed to have I think 500 potential matches and “only” […]

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WHAT IS THE JOB OF A PROFESSIONAL MATCHMAKER AT BON JOUR MATCHMAKING?

(Click on the blue print to go to Post) As I said in a previous Post, some issues have come up in the past couple of years that have never come up during my 28 years of matchmaking.  One such issue is the definition of a matchmaker in general and specifically in Bon Jour Matchmaking, […]

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WORKING WITH A MATCHMAKER SHOWS YOUR WORTH

Rather than feeling like people perceive you as desperate or a loser, you should really feel that because you are so special and have so much going for you that you’ve chosen to have the exclusive representation of a professional matchmaker! Working with a Denver matchmaker is not something you should feel embarrassed about.  Do […]

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STILL LEARNING AFTER ALL THESE YEARS AS A PROFESSIONAL MATCHMAKER

(Click on the blue print to go to Post) I attended a Christmas party where there was a bevy of successful and attractive women over 55.  There are lots of interesting, attractive, fit and energetic women over 55 and it seemed many of them were there.  No, this was not a singles party, it was […]

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DENVER MATCHMAKER’S SINGLES ARE REALISTIC WHEN LOOKING FOR LOVE

626 Denver singles have tied the knot through Bon Jour Matchmaking Service.  Thousands of professional Denver singles have tried Bon Jour since 1989 and there has developed a clear profile of the clients who marry.  There are two important components: patience and realism.  It’s that simple. A client who is most apt to find a mate is one […]

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MYTHS AND TRUTHS ABOUT MATCHMAKING SERVICES AND DATING SERVICES

(Click on the blue print to go to Post) In my opinion the number 1 myth is…the more expensive a service is the more successful it is and the higher quality their clients are.  If you look at reviews of the most expensive services around the country as well as Denver matchmaking services, you will […]

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THIS IS THE REASON FOR AN OPEN-ENDED CONTRACT WITH A DENVER MATCHMAKER

(Please click on the BLUE print to go to Posts or Pages) A gentleman joined Bon Jour Matchmaking a year ago in August.  He selectively met a couple of women who appealed to him.  Then for several months he met a woman he dated for a while.  A few months ago a new woman joined […]

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ARE DENVER MATCHMAKERS DOING THEIR JOB?

PLEASE BE SURE TO CLICK ON THE BLUE PRINT TO GO TO POST I guess the answer depends on your definition of a “Matchmaker”.  It also depends on your agenda when using Denver matchmaking services.  According to World English Dictionary it’s a limited definition (in my opinion)… World English Dictionary matchmaker 1 (ˈmætʃˌmeɪkə) — n […]

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