Presumably if you are considering hiring a Denver matchmaker it’s because you have not had success on your own. Either because of the venues you’ve chosen or things you have done that didn’t work.

When you hire any professional you defer to their experience and wisdom or else what is the point in working with them? The more experience they have, the more you should trust them.

With 34 years under my belt and my one-on-one, hands-on approach I see how clients react to profiles and the pictures. If someone calls for Bon Jour Matchmaking’s free phone consultation and argues with me about my different types of approach, first of all this is not the service for them. Secondly, I can see the writing on the wall that this will be a difficult client, impossible to please, who will fight me every inch of the way.

This is not a service with multiple “matchmakers”. It’s all me, so I know the clients and how they react to profiles and pictures. If you are considering Bon Jour you need to understand and accept my structure and approach. If you argue with me before even becoming a client, then this is not the service for you. Two potential clients just did that, and I decided not to work with either of them. My clients “get it”…

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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