TIPS FOR SELECTING A GOOD MATCHMAKER

The Good Matchmaker We tend to measure a successful matchmaker by the number of marriages that result from her suggestions. However, there are many matchmakers who are held in high esteem by their clients, even though their suggestion-to-marriage ratio isn’t that high. They’re the matchmakers who really listen to their clients, make suggestions that are …

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LET ME HELP YOU CORRECT INEFFECTIVE DATING PATTERNS

I’ve received feedback about my Blog that people love my anecdotal stories as they help clarify my points.  So to illuminate this point…I have found with some of my clients that they have a regular routine of some kind that they don’t change when they come in here and meet potential mates.  Whether it be …

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THINK LONG TERM, BE REALISTIC and BE HUMAN WHEN DATING

I have recently been in contact with a guy I dated in my twenties.  He’s now in his sixties.  One of the things that got on my nerves when we dated was that he worked out obsessively every day, 7 days a week and anything else was put on the back burner. Well, it turns …

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THE BEST CHOICE…AN UNMARRIED DENVER MATCHMAKER

(Click on bright blue print to go to Posts) Periodically people ask me if I’m not married how can I coach and match make others.  My response is…if I had been married for years how would I remember or even know the ups and downs, frustrations, disappointments or current choices for finding a mate?  I …

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NOTHING TAKES THE PLACE OF CHEMISTRY

One only needs to watch The Bachelor each season from start to finish to see that nothing takes the place of chemistry. At the beginning when there is a bevy of gorgeous women and hunky men the viewer may pick out who they personally feel are the best looking ones and assume those are the …

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WHAT IS INSANITY WHEN IT COMES TO USING A DENVER MATCHMAKER?

To quote the brilliant Albert Einstein, “The definition of INSANITY is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”  This was requoted to me by a new client prior to his interview as the reason he decided to stop using Internet dating sites and work with a professional Denver Matchmaker. So that …

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MATCHMAKING, COACHING, LISTENING AND LEARNING AT THIS DENVER SERVICE

Hiring a matchmaking service is a lot like hiring a financial adviser to direct you in the stock market.  You invest your money hoping for a large return; you have patience because the market can go up and down and you are basically making an educated decision about this form of investment.  Likewise in a …

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PREMIERE DENVER MATCHMAKER SAYS “LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES”

(Click on the light pink print to go to Post) Through my twenties, thirties and a bit in my forties I dated veraciously.  I had always thought that the more men I dated the better chance I would have of meeting the right one…NOT!  It took until my mid-forties to realize, obviously, that does not …

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DENVER MATCHMAKING FEES AND SERVICES INVESTIGATED

Like any business owner I periodically Google Denver matchmaking services to see what is going on in the Denver market.  Recently I’ve viewed two services that are only TWO years old that are charging more than I am after 25 years!  So I investigated further…are they offering services I’m not?  In actuality they are offering …

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DIRECT AND HONEST or CHARISMATIC AND UNTRUSTWORTHY

Which Do You Prefer? Are you the type of person who falls for charm and charisma and lives to regret it?  Those charismatic charmers are often called scammers.  I have a relative who is very, very charismatic, however once he’s “got” you he’s like a snake and will bite you the minute you are off …

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