I received a call from a 62 year old doctor who is interested in dating women in their thirties and having children. He has never been married or had children. So now, at the age of 62 that’s his agenda. My women are ONLY interested in meeting men who are age appropriate, especially to have children with. DECLINED…

I received a call from a 36 year old man who is divorced, no children. His primary focus was how many women he would meet and how quickly. He told me that he met 100 women in a 2-year period through internet dating services and dating apps. He also did not want children or to date someone with children and in the age range he specified my women either have them or want them. DECLINED…

I am a matchmaker with all that implies. I do not just throw people at each other, I matchmake! So, you will surely meet less people but those who are more appropriate for you rather than just anybody and everybody. DECLINED…

I received a call from a 55 year old, divorced man. He has no children and now wants to have children. So his desired age range for matches was 35-45. After talking with him for 3 hours cumulatively he finally told me that he plans to move to South America as soon as the Pandemic ends to start a business. My women have lives and cannot just drop everything and pick up and move out of the country. That is something he should have told me in the very beginning of the conversation. It would have ended there. Again, my women date age appropriate men regardless of the older man’s financial status. I suggested he hire a matchmaker after he moves. DECLINED…

Also, basic stuff like a woman who said she’s on the cover of magazines and owns several businesses but is a size 22 does not fit the criteria and preferences of my male clients.

Some guys who say they are 5’5″ (which may or may not be true) also do not fit the preferences of my female clients.

I don’t just accept people to make money. You have to fit what the clientele is looking for and vice versa.

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to http://bonjourms.com

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