DO NOT CALL BON JOUR IF…YOU ARE CALLING FOR SOMEONE ELSE

I’ve been a personal/professional matchmaker for 36 years in Bon Jour Matchmaking. Consistently when someone, a parent, sibling, friend or grandparent has called for their single loved one it has never worked out.

That person has to be interested enough for a relationship and have the initiative themselves to make that call. There are questions I need to ask that person the one calling does not have the answers to.

Every time someone else has called, the actual single has never followed up with a call. So clearly, THEY are not the one desiring a relationship, or at least not through a service.

So, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE do not call for that single. If they don’t do the research and instigate the call, they are not interested even though you have the best of intentions.

YOU CAN’T WIN THEM ALL AS A DENVER MATCHMAKER FOR 35 YEARS

I meet and represent 100s of clients a year and have been for 35 years. Realistically there will inevitably be a client here or there who is disappointed. Either because they really didn’t understand the process or that this is a matchmaking service NOT a dating service.

Others because they got in their own way. Joining Bon Jour Matchmaking is an emotional commitment, not just a financial one. Clients should make time, in a timely manner, to meet people and put in the effort to cultivate a relationship.

When we first have the FREE initial phone consultation, I can only go by what you represent to me. Additionally, during the extensive interview I can only believe what you tell me. On the rare occasion, I find that is not consistent with their behavior going forward.

This, obviously, is not going to work for everyone. That’s why I have a more reasonable fee than other Denver matchmaking services, as well as the open-ended contract which gives clients much more of a chance of success. That is not always enough because people have their own agendas and expectations. I really do the best I can, but that’s not always enough for some people…

BON JOUR IS REAL MATCHMAKING

Because Bon Jour Matchmaking Service is REAL matchmaking, clients have to have the patience for the right match(es) to present themselves. Thus, the open-ended contract.

If you are in a hurry, it may happen right away, it has many times over 35 years, but there are times that it has taken substantial time for the right person to appear. One woman was with me for 11 years before the man she married presented after his wife died. Meanwhile, that man met and married the first and only woman he met right after becoming a client!

I have no way of knowing how long it will take or how short. That’s why the open-ended contract AND reasonable investment fee!

BON JOUR NOW OFFERS A PAYMENT PLAN FOR YOUR INVESTMENT FEE

Should you decide you need a payment plan for your investment fee, you may pay up to 3 payments until you reach your fee total.

If you choose this plan, you may view client profiles and make your selections, however you will not be presented to those selections or new potential matches until you are paid in full and become a full client.

See also Fees, Hours and Locations

WHY THIS DENVER MATCHMAKER LOVES HER CLIENTS!

IT’S A RESOUNDING AUTHENTICITY FOR THE LONGEST RUNNING DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICE

Almost every person who calls me says I’m the only matchmaking service they have called or are planning on calling! When asked why, it is a resounding “authenticity”!

The definition of authentic is…from Merriam Webster: Genuine, bona fide means being actually and exactly what is claimed. Authentic implies being fully trustworthy as according with fact.

I can’t think of a greater compliment! I point to this description as the reason Bon Jour Matchmaking Service has been facilitating marriages for 36 years!

In some reviews people have spoken untruths as well as inaccuracies mostly on Yelp…mostly because I decided not to accept them as a client. I am not going to waste your time, money and energy representing you if you do not fit what my clients have set forth as their preferences and criteria at that point in time, OR who doesn’t understand my philosophy and structure. Be grateful I didn’t scam you out of your money and told you the truth.

Bon Jour is not a franchise or owned by several owners. I am the sole proprietor and sole matchmaker who has interviewed and knows all of my clients. After 36 years my goal is your goal, not to see how much money I can make.

WHAT’S BON JOUR MATCHMAKING’S BEHAVIORAL AGREEMENT?

MATCHMAKING IS A TRUE PARTNERSHIP

Bon Jour Matchmaking’s philosophy is and always has been that we work as a team. I am a facilitator, confidant, coach and matchmaker who has interviewed every single client face-to-face. As such I have a personal relationship with each client assisting me in choosing the best potential matches for them. BUT I do not make the final decision on who they meet. Each client makes that decision based on a myriad of information and pictures. We discuss each option, but clients have the last word on who they choose to meet.

The reason Bon Jour has been so successful over 35 years is because there are really 3 of us making each decision. I decide which potential matches to share with clients. The client decides who they are most interested in. Then that client decides if the match is right for them. They say that 2 heads are better than 1. But 3 heads are even better!!!

I share feedback from each client both good and not so good, so clients have a true understanding of what is going on early in potential relationships, thus leading to successful couplings.

BON JOUR MATCHMAKING’S SUCCESS IS ATTRIBUTED TO MY CLIENTS

A business cannot last and succeed for 35 years without intense scrutiny of potential clients. My priority in matchmaking is not to see how much money I can accrue. Matchmaking is not what I do…matchmaking is who I am.

Potential clients don’t realize that I start evaluating them from the first contact they make with me, whether it be verbal or email. I notice everything. Having a reliable, responsive, engaged clientele is why Bon Jour Matchmaking is and has always been so successful!

Some potential clients have said, well I was going to be responsive once I became a client. Oh noooooo…if I assess prior to that, that you’re not responding or sending me what I’ve requested, you will not become a client.

Having the best clientele selected by me is one of the core reasons for their success!

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