COLORADO’S OLDEST MATCHMAKING SERVICE CREDITS IT’S CLIENTS FOR THEIR SUCCESS!

Many times when people call to inquire about Bon Jour Matchmaking, they ask my success rate. My success rate is completely and totally attributed to the collaboration between my clients and myself.

I have learned over these 35 years not to make the decision for my clients. I’ve had many clients marry who I would not have matched them with. But they chose each other! I had the forethought to share all profiles that fit a client’s criteria and preferences, but they decide who resonates with them based on all the information and pictures provided.

Almost all other Denver dating services and Denver matchmaking services decide for the client (usually because of their package contract) who they will meet, usually to satisfy their contract. In Bon Jour it is a total collaboration. If I have a gut feeling about someone, I will share that, but it’s always up to each client who they choose to meet.

That’s why this established, local, old fashioned Denver matchmaking service is turning 35 January, 2024!!!

MICHELE, WILL YOU DO MONTH TO MONTH?

The short and direct answer is NO. That is just a gimmick to continue to charge clients every month and does not give clients enough time to meet the right person.

For 35 years my clients have enjoyed an open-ended contract, which is one of the main reasons they chose to work with Bon Jour!

This contract is the best way for singles to insure they will meet their permanent mate, giving them the gift of time.

Remember, this is not a dating service that just throws people at you to meet a contract. I have clients who have been married since the early 1990s! That is because of the structure of Bon Jour Matchmaking.

MICHELE, WHAT IS YOUR MATCHMAKING SUCCESS RATE?

I am often asked that question…the complete answer is…it’s not just about me. There are 2 people in a relationship. I coach, suggest, share information and listen. But ultimately, it’s up to those 2 people to make their relationship work.

There have been many instances early on when, because of a lack of communication usually, the potential relationship starts to derail. That’s when I step in and share information and coach so that every match has the best chance of progressing.

There have been many matches that would not have progressed to marriage had I not stepped in. But of course, the first step is putting the right people together. With the amount of information shared on each client’s profile, as well as their pictures, and each client making the decision themselves who appeals to them…that is the first component to a successful match.

It’s not rocket science, but after almost 35 years of professional matchmaking, that is why so many of my clients have gone on to long and happy marriages!