This is Great Expectations! This is the same company that was sued by 3 Attorney Generals, gives you a total hard sell, and charges huge membership fees.  If you want the real scoop on this company … just Google Great Expectations. Same company … same ol schtick! __________________________________________________________________

Do NOT join this dating service. They call it “rebranding” by changing their name to Mile High Singles. They were previously known as Great Expectations. If you Google that name you will find out why they dropped it. While I said goodbye to my money, I don’t want anyone else to be taken. I was lucky. I held out with their high pressure sales and only got taken for $2,500.00. Fees start at $10,000 and up with them giving special offers so they are sure to get you for something. Student of Love discount…Friends and Family discount….I can’t believe I fell for it so don’t you too! They promise a client list of thousands when only very few people are actually active members. I filed a report with the Better Business Bureau with  no resolution. I am attempting to get a news investigation initiated to warn the general public. Don’t do it!


DO NOT SIGN UP!!! They will set you up with whomever is handy! They do not listen to what you are looking for. I can’t tell you how many times I went out to lunch only to meet people that were not anything like I told them I was looking for… I spent a lot of money because this service is supposed to be personalized and it is so far from that.

It’s Just Lunch has been a very frustrating service to work with. They present a beautiful picture of awesome dates, and that they have this large database of individuals to match you with. However, in the few dates I have been on, I feel like my voice is not being heard.  They claim it is better then online dating, but my experiences online have been much more enjoyable. They do not listen to what you are interested in. It is very expensive, and so far, it has not been worth it. The worst part – they are not helping their business  by setting me up with terrible dates, because I tell everyone (my entire office, single friends, and anyone who wants to listen) about how much of a joke it is. I would rather them not waste my time and wait to send me on a date that might be a more suitable match.


Tried IJL 2 different times years apart. Both experiences were disappointing at best. As a woman, I paid $1500 for 3 dates over 3 months.  Doesn’t make sense to me that I don’t get to see photos before a date, as I definitely was matched with men that would never fall into my definition of physically attractive. I also felt that there was a stable of men who were used as necessary to fulfill IJL’s dating designations. I met a man who told me that was his role.  Not worth your time, money, and energy.

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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