REASONS I MIGHT DECLINE TO WORK TOGETHER

As I’ve mentioned several times on this site, I probably decline more people than I accept in Bon Jour Matchmaking. There are several reasons I may suggest we don’t go forward. The reason for this is because regardless of your income or worth, it is still an investment both in your commitment and your one-time fee. I will not take money from you if I feel from the free phone consultation that you may not be successful. So, following are some reasons I may decline:

  1. My current clients set the criteria. Should you fall outside of that criteria I will know during our consultation call and not proceed;
  2. Should you repeatedly ask how many people you are going to meet. This is NOT a dating service, Bon Jour is as matchmaking service with all that implies. We are searching for the right one, not let’s see how many people I can throw at you;
  3. You argue with me about my structure, the clients’ criteria or whatever. Arguing with me right out of the shoot shows me you would be a difficult client both for me and my clientele. It also shows me you don’t understand the philosophy of the service.

So, there it is…I don’t always know how successful a client will be, but I can ascertain their marketability within my matchmaking service. I’ve interviewed every client face-to-face, have a 6-page profile on all of them and have a relationship with each and every client.

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 36+ years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to http://bonjourms.com

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