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To be the most successful and the least disappointed in dating or matchmaking services it is wise to be realistic.  When joining a Denver dating service don’t expect the perfect person to already be in the service.  That may or may not be the case.  Just because you joined when you did doesn’t dictate that the right people will already be there waiting.  That is the biggest reason to join a matchmaking service that offers an open-ended contract (with no extra fee).  Timing is a major component in the success of clients so the longer the service allows you to be part of it, the more apt you are to meet the right person.

Remember that Denver Matchmakers are not magicians.  It is not Burger King.  You can’t expect to place your order and have the perfect person pop out.  Keep in mind what brought you to the decision to join.  You’ve probably tried meeting someone on your own, used the Internet, joined other services and/or clubs.  So why would you realistically expect things to happen immediately?  That may happen or it may not, but if you expect it to happen right away you may be setting yourself up for disappointment.

Granted I’ve had many clients who got “lucky” and met their mate right after they came in and got married.  Quite a few have, but there is no way for me to know whether that will happen for you.  I don’t know your taste, background, whether you are open-minded or have tons of specific criteria for your selections.  So when Denver singles ask me over the phone how successful they will be, there is honestly no way for me to know.  I really feel that services who make lots of promises when trying to sign you should be avoided.  There just is no definitive way to know how successful someone will be…it’s fate and timing but Bon Jour Matchmaking Service gives you the gift of time.

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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