The type of Denver singles who join Bon Jour Matchmaking Service are people who already have made a good life for themselves. They are well educated, have stable careers and may travel extensively both for work and for pleasure. Many have already tried Internet dating sites, local matchmaking services or both. So they know what they like and don’t like in a service and what they expect from a personal Matchmaker. My clientele can count on the fact that what they see (on the questionnaire and photos) is what they get and that all clients are single and genuinely searching for love.
To keep my clientele happy and secure I start evaluating someone from their very first phone contact. The initial FREE phone consultation, which may last up to an hour or more, gives both myself and the potential client a very good idea of whether this type of structure is best for them. It also shows both of us whether we may be able to work together in this endeavor. And last, but not least, it tells me whether this person both will fit in with the current clientele and is someone my clients would want to meet. Of course I am only making an educated guess at that as any client may turn down any profile that is shown to them.
My clients who have used the services mentioned above to find love do not want to play dating by the numbers (meaning the more people you meet the better your chances are). They are already burned out on mass dating from other local services who sell a specific number of dates for an outrageous fee and/or dating sites where it is like a second job to go through who is being honest and the best fit. They now have opted for my philosophy of taking your time and only meeting the few most appropriate matches that we both choose so they don’t get discouraged and worn out.
In addition they appreciate my formula of who I select to become a client. I tell both men and women, they can meet a jerk for free, so I not only feel out someone before they join, after they become a client and through feedback from other clients, it is an ongoing choice to work together. Most singles who call me for Bon Jour are really worn out from the mass dating they’ve been doing. They want a smarter and more honed approach and feel they are receiving that from my philosophy.
Matchmaking is not a quick fix. The real thing MAY take some time or not in some lucky cases, but all agree it is certainly worth it to find your last first date and change the rest of your life!