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Because I encourage Denver singles to phone me to discuss the service and their individual goals people say the darnedest things!  Some of the comments Denver singles have made that are ridiculous and maybe give a slight hint why they are still single are:

Your website is too feminine and I’m a marketing expert and don’t feel that you will attract enough men…the response to that is if I’ve had 313 marriages half of those were MEN!  Giving single Denver men credit for having enough sense to go by content rather than appearance of a website that is a ridiculous comment.  I receive as many calls from men as I do from women.

I’ve met 100 women through an Internet dating service, it’s a numbers game...It’s only a numbers game if you make it one.  Either he wasn’t too particular or he’s impossible to please and that’s why he’s still single.

A man who used another local service and complained about it both in his e-mail to me and on the phone.  Then when I was explaining the differences between the two services got annoyed with me for mentioning the difference between the two services...Then don’t call me complaining on and on about another service if you don’t want to hear the differences between us!

Same man who said “Michele, you’re not much of a salesman.”…That’s right, I’m a Matchmaker.  The service speaks for itself with the length of time in business, the client friendly structure, the number of marriages and the Testimonials.  He must have been used to the other service’s sales calls.

Well what am I getting for this fee?... Hopefully you are meeting the woman/man you’ve been looking for on all those other forums!  Hopefully you will meet your last first date!  At least you have the time to meet your goal with my open-ended contract Additionally you are receiving all of the services listed on the Home Page.

I’m so busy I don’t have time to get the photos and answer the one page of questions you sent me.  I’m working, taking a class, and sooo busy…the response to that is obviously, then do you have time to cultivate a relationship?  Do you have time to come in for a two hour interview?  Do you have time to meet people?

I agree with your whole structure, your philosophy and the quality of your clients.  The fee is how much?…from a gentleman who has not spoken with the other matchmaking services in Denver or he would know I’m the least costly for all that I offer.

You didn’t ask me to write this differently, all of your clients’ narratives list activities…Actually with every new client I go through the questionnaire in my office and then the new client views profiles selected especially for them.  I always say be sure to read the narratives so you can get an idea of what I want you to write.  DO NOT list activities as I already have them.  Write a narrative that says something I didn’t cover in the rest of the questionnaire and will make you stand out from others.  That can be the deciding factor in some cases as to whether someone wants to meet you or not.  I say the exact same thing to every new client.

Can you quantify the amount of men in my age range?  As I’ve explained on many other Posts and Pages, until I interview you and know your criteria and preferences I cannot tell you over the phone how many profiles you will be looking at.  It doesn’t matter how many people are in that age range, it matters whether any of them fit for you.  You only need ONE to really fit!

I will add more of them when they come to mind or come up in conversations.  In case you have any of these thoughts hopefully I have addressed your concerns.

Michele “the Matchmaker” Fields

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to http://bonjourms.com

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