Periodically I receive calls from men in their late fifties or early sixties who proclaim that they always date women 20 years younger and it’s never been a problem.  If it’s never been a problem why are you calling a Matchmaker?  As I’ve shared throughout this website I interview every client so I know the age range they prefer and how far they will stretch.  So if I say I have no women in their early forties who are interested in dating men 20 years older that’s not a guess.  I’ve interviewed them and it’s merely a fact.

When investing with a Matchmaker neither women nor especially men will deviate very much from what they specify at the time of the interview.  Both sexes are pretty inflexible in a service compared to how they would be meeting someone by chance.

In the past few years I have also received calls from women who are interested in dating men up to five years younger than them.  That just isn’t going to happen in the parameters of my service.  Again, that’s not a guess; I know every client and their criteria.  The women are somewhat more flexible than the men but not much.

If you are a man in the age range mentioned in the first paragraph above and your interest is in dating much younger women, this is not the service for you.  My women are educated, professional, independent women seeking an equal, a partner.  For women who are interested in dating men 5 years younger, again this is not the service for you.  My men are not investing in a service to meet older women, usually the opposite within reason.

My advice to those singles is to use the Internet dating services or any local “matchmaking” service where you buy a certain number of dates for a finite period of time and they will throw you together with whomever.  That may be a better fit for those mentioned above.  Best of luck to you.

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to http://bonjourms.com

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