I am oh so careful about who I work with on behalf of my clients so as to save them time, aggravation and frustration. For the most part the majority of the people I accept seem to understand that and if they don’t I prefer they work with a service best suited to their goals and philosophy. But every once in a while, although I’ve been extremely direct and clear as is my website, someone desperately wants to work with me and proclaims they get it just to find out within a couple of months they don’t.  Fortunately for the over 300 couples who have married through Bon Jour they had the patience and understanding to go through the process and it paid off!  I have no way of knowing how long the process will take for you personally because YOU have a lot to do with that.  If you have unrealistic expectations and turn down every one who is interested than it will take you longer.  That is your prerogative but not my responsibility as your matchmaker.  We share responsibility and I can only do what you allow me to do.

In a nutshell, if you are looking for immediate gratification and/or meeting lots of singles this is not the service for you.  Bon Jour Matchmaking is an old fashioned, genuine matchmaking service.  I vet all clients and qualify them before wasting your time just throwing people at you to meet a contract.  If you have the patience and are realistic this may be the right service for you.  Most couples who have married through Bon Jour married either the first or second person they met…regardless of how long it took to find the right match!

Please read through my website carefully and if we chat and you don’t understand don’t be shy. I want my approach to be crystal clear or we are both wasting each others time. Best of luck!

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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