TOO BUSY TO NURTURE A RELATIONSHIP?

As mentioned previously on this website, I have a Behavioral Agreement for every client. The purpose is to optimize your success for a potential relationship. My clients are great for the most part at adhering to the Agreement. However, over the 34 years I have had some who were so busy they ruined any chance of a potential relationship succeeding.

Interestingly these clients have all been women. I understand a busy life/schedule, but if you do not find the time to nurture a possible relationship then no service will help you. I ended up dropping these clients as it was too frustrating for my male clients. So, if this is you, don’t waste your money unless you are serious enough to adjust your lifestyle.

It’s like when people ask me my success rate…it’s only as good as the clients. I’m only 50% of the equation. You are the other 50%! That’s why I’m so discerning as to who I accept as a client.

Many clients have tried Dating Apps and Dating Sites and experienced the above scenario. I do not want that to be their experience in Bon Jour Matchmaking. So, think long and hard about your lifestyle and whether you are willing to tweak it to include and nurture a relationship.

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 36+ years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to http://bonjourms.com

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