Today, January 1, 2024 is the 35th anniversary of Bon Jour Matchmaking Service!
In these many, many years, I have received calls from grandmothers, fathers, mothers, friends, sisters and step-mothers for their single loved one. In some cases those folks called me multiple times over several years…yet the single they were calling for/about never contacted me, except in the instance below.
I understand the love and concern for someone who is single and having trouble in their love life. BUT, THEY must be the one to reach out to me. On the 1 occasion when someone’s father in another state called and then the woman called and came in, it ultimately didn’t work out because her heart was not in it. She had been pushed, prodded, bugged to get on with her love life. But that was not her agenda, it was her father’s.
So, starting today, if the single person isn’t the one who contacts me, I am no longer going to take hours discussing their situation and Bon Jour to the person who calls for them. THEY have to call to show that THEY are genuinely seeking a mate…my clients deserve that.