I meet and represent 100s of clients a year and have been for 35 years. Realistically there will inevitably be a client here or there who is disappointed. Either because they really didn’t understand the process or that this is a matchmaking service NOT a dating service.
Others because they got in their own way. Joining Bon Jour Matchmaking is an emotional commitment, not just a financial one. Clients should make time, in a timely manner, to meet people and put in the effort to cultivate a relationship.
When we first have the FREE initial phone consultation, I can only go by what you represent to me. Additionally, during the extensive interview I can only believe what you tell me. On the rare occasion, I find that is not consistent with their behavior going forward.
This, obviously, is not going to work for everyone. That’s why I have a more reasonable fee than other Denver matchmaking services, as well as the open-ended contract which gives clients much more of a chance of success. That is not always enough because people have their own agendas and expectations. I really do the best I can, but that’s not always enough for some people…