My coaching is based on a few factors. One is my own extensive dating experience and what I’ve learned from that. Another is my clients’ dating experiences which further educates me and finally the direct feedback I receive from your match(es).
Some people have a perception of themselves a certain way and that’s how they present themselves to me. In some cases I find their perceptions are incorrect. Example, I received an email from a woman which in part stated that she is great at following coaching and listens to advice. I have found the total opposite. We have had numerous conversations about asking too many questions during the first meeting/date. She has totally ignored the feedback and coaching which it appears has been a waste of my time. If I find that my feedback is not being taken to heart after repeated conversations, I will discontinue it. There’s no point, it’s like talking to the wall. I will continue to give feedback but will discontinue my advice regarding it. Those who take my advice to heart and apply it will continue to receive it.
There are few if any venues where you can receive direct feedback from a person you are dating…this is one. I even cut and paste the feedback and share it to you, so you know exactly what that person is thinking and don’t have to take my word for it!
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