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When you first contact me to ask questions about my service, that is when we both start evaluating whether my structure, philosophy and personality fit for you and I assess whether you are someone my clientele would be interested in meeting, truly understand my philosophy, whether you are…
Author Archives: Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields
DIRECT AND HONEST or CHARISMATIC AND UNTRUSTWORTHY
Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Which Do You Prefer? Are you the type of person who falls for charm and charisma and lives to regret it?? Those charismatic charmers are often called scammers.? I have a relative who is very, very charismatic, however once he’s “got” you he’s like a snake and will…
WORKING WITH THIS DENVER MATCHMAKER IS A COMMITMENT
Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
When you decide to work with me at Bon Jour Matchmaking there is an agreement on both parts. As your personal Matchmaker I will make every effort to point you in the right direction, counsel you when you receive negative feedback, step in when I feel you may…
EVER WONDERED WHY YOU WERE DUMPED?
Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Who hasn’t wondered what happened when a relationship with so much potential ended. Why someone didn’t call you back after a first date. I know the answers right from my clients’ mouths. If you view some of the Posts on POSTS TO READ BEFORE JOINING ANY DENVER MATCHMAKING…
VETERAN MATCHMAKER WARNS OF REVIEWS OF MATCHMAKING OR DATING SERVICES
Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
How to Interpret Negative Yelp Reviews of Businesses Owning a matchmaking service is a slippery slope…you are managing people’s hopes and dreams as well as egos and expectations. Many people who join a service have higher criteria for the people they meet in the service than they would…
WHAT DOES OPEN-ENDED CONTRACT MEAN?
Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Recently I’ve had the experience with several new clients when they initially called asking what an “open-ended contract” meant. Other Denver matchmaking services may refer to it as a “Lifetime Contract” or a “Platinum Package” and charge you a lot extra to have that benefit. EVERY client of…
WORKING WITH A MATCHMAKER SHOWS YOUR WORTH
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Rather than feeling like people perceive you as desperate or a loser, you should really feel that because you are so special and have so much going for you that you’ve chosen to have the exclusive representation of a professional matchmaker! Working with a Denver matchmaker is not…
REMEMBERING BARRY FEY and OTHER BON JOUR CELEBRITIES
I was watching Colorado Voices on PBS tonight and Barry Fey was a main focus. I was honored that Barry chose to work with me two different times, about 16 years apart. Sadly, he was a client of mine when he died. Along with Barry, during my 34 (almost) year career in matchmaking, the sister …
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WHAT TYPES OF SINGLES ARE THE MOST SUCCESSFUL WHEN WORKING WITH A DENVER MATCHMAKER?
Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Since 1989 I’ve observed the types of people who have the most success working with me. Contrary to popular belief they are not the most beautiful or handsome, in fact they are usually average to a bit above average. They are not the richest men, they are realistic…
BETTER LATE THAN NEVER WHEN FINDING LOVE
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After a 33 year career of Denver matchmaking it is clear to me that my clients are so patient and willing to wait for the right person to come along. To help them with that goal I give every client an open ended contract, meaning they are a…
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