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1. In my opinion the number 1 myth is…the more expensive a service is the more successful it is and the higher quality their clients are.  If you look at reviews of the most expensive services around the country as well as Denver matchmaking services, you will see many, many negative reviews.  So you should not judge a service by what they charge you.  Many are just greedy and want to make lots of money for doing nothing.
2. If a service has been covered by the media that means it is a good service and you can trust what you see in the news story.  MYTH,  Again, if you look at reviews of some of those services you will see that clearly the reporter/writer did not do their due diligence before writing or reporting the story.  It is not…

Over my 28 (as of 1/1/17) year career I’ve seen it all.  What I have seen that I didn’t anticipate is that although I can introduce people to great clients with lots of potential, they themselves can derail what could have been a successful lifetime match.

Believe it or not I’ve found this mostly with women.  Single women tend to fill up their lives with a variety of activities, as well they should, however if you hire a Denver matchmaker one would presume you are serious about finding love and do everything you can to create an environment for this to flourish.

I have found in a handful of cases that these particular female clients refuse to make room in their lives or curtail some of these activities to cultivate a relationship.  Thus my men become frustrated and disappointed and move on.  Although I have given feedback to these women…

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When you first contact me to ask questions about my service that is when we both start evaluating whether my structure, philosophy and personality fit for you and I deduce whether you truly understand my philosophy, whether you are realistic, your dating attitude and whether we communicate well enough to work together.  To make this a successful partnership both sides have to fit…just like with your matches.

As it says all over my website this is an OLD FASHIONED MATCHMAKING SERVICE.  Presumably you are calling me because you understand that and all that means.  So to ask me how many are in my “database” right off the bat tells me you don’t get it.  My clients are not a “database”, they are clients.  Would you want to be considered part of a database or a client?  One implies a…

Going into my 28th year practicing matchmaking I’ve developed a new plan that can make you your investment fee back if the situation fits.

After you become a client of this Denver matchmaking service, if you meet someone either in or outside the service and cultivate a long and hopefully permanent relationship I’m inviting you to either GIFT or SELL your place in Bon Jour.  This also applies if you move out of state.  If you SELL your place you cannot sell it for more than you paid, so you would have to ask me what you paid if you don’t remember.  The perspective buyer MUST MEET ALL BON JOUR MATCHMAKING CRITERIAfirst or I will NOT honor the sale.  There are NO REFUNDS from Bon Jour Matchmaking Service or Michele Fields.

Those conditions are:

1. The person must live in Colorado and spend at least half their time in the…