Denver Singles Have High Expectations of Local Denver Dating Services

Although I am more the tortoise than the hare when it comes to Denver dating and matchmaking (remember who won that race), I only set you up based on mutual compatibility and both parties having access to a multitude of information and agreeing to the match.  That’s why most of the 313 couples who have married through Michele the Matchmaker at Bon Jour married either the first or second person they met in the service!

As a Denver single myself as well as a Professional Matchmaker for 22 years I can really empathize with my clients on many levels.  I try to put myself in my clients’ position if I were to join a Denver Dating or Matchmaking Service.  After all that is how I decided on the structure of my service in 1989.

When you come in to Bon Jour Matchmaking Service for your two-hour interview and make your investment you assume there will be people you will be excited about lots of prospects and that because you want to meet them they will want to meet you.  Like the Internet or any other dating venue that may not be the case OR it may be, there is no way to know in advance.  The make-up of the clientele varies from week to week.  That’s why there is so much value in having my open-ended contract.  So whenever the right person arrives, whether it’s the day you join or later, you will be there!

If you contact a local Denver dating service and they make all kinds of promises logically that cannot be the case.  Not if they are doing their job right.  If you want to date in bulk use the Internet.  To pay a service for a specific number of dates you are asking to be sorely disappointed in the quality as well as the compatibility.  I’ve heard this directly from many, many singles who have used those.  They are also ridiculously expensive and have limited contracts.

What is your definition of a Matchmaker? 

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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