Here’s a shocker…women are known for being communicative and men not so much.  This Denver Matchmaker of 24 years has found the exact opposite!

I have found women to have high expectations and often not to communicate changes that I may need to update their profiles.  They are also less apt to show appreciation for the match or marriage through my service.

Conversely my men are the ones who call with feedback after the first meeting/date, update me from time to time on how the relationship is going and let me know when they get engaged.  They also tend to show more appreciation for my efforts.

So what does this mean?  Could mean several things but my suggestion to single women is to go easy on your Matchmaker.  Even the best Matchmaker can only work with clients who are in the service who have been vetted and follow your preferences.  There is every incentive for your Matchmaker to set you up if the situation arises, especially when you are paying a per introduction fee.

For dating in bulk with no real commitment and a question mark as to how true the information you view is…my suggestion is to use the Internet or a service who sells a certain number of dates and hope for the best.

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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