Take it from Michele “the Matchmaker” Fields, if you’ve started dating someone who has many or, in some cases, any of the following traits, history or situation…RUN THE OTHER WAY!

  • They drink too much;
  • They do drugs;
  • They are married;
  • They try to borrow money from you;
  • They don’t remember dates that are important to you;
  • They hit you and are aggressive towards you;
  • They blame you for the bad things in the relationship or always blame someone else;
  • They consistently lie to you;
  • They have more than two exes (spouses);
  • They say they “love you” but they are not “in love” with you;
  • They alienate you from your friends;
  • They don’t like your kids;
  • They insist that you convert to their religion;
  • They always find fault with how you look;
  • Your friends don’t like them;
  • They don’t introduce you to their family and friends;
  • They are obsessed with porn or the internet;
  • They play too many mind games;
  • They are still involved with their ex or even living with them;
  • They ignore your emotional needs;
  • They have financial issues;
  • They anger easily and too often;
  • They are a serial dater;
  • They blatantly check out the opposite sex in front of you;
  • Are frivolous with their money;
  • They are obsessed with sex with and without you;
  • Physically or verbally abusive;
  • Always lets you down;
  • Makes fun of you in front of others;
  • Wants you to have plastic surgery;
  • They have too many bad habits.

WOW…that should clue you in as to an inappropriate partner!

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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