The Cream of the Crop

When I established Bon Jour Matchmaking Service in 1989 I did not have any particular group of singles in mind to target.  I grew strictly through referrals and was fortunate enough to attract educated, successful, healthy and fit clients.  When receiving a call from a prospect now I have to evaluate whether they fit in with the current clientele.  In that I, personally, have interviewed every single client in Bon Jour I know what they are looking for and only am able to accept new clients who fit those parameters.

I never cease to be amazed by my female clients who all have careers or vocations that took a great deal of either education, experience or both.  My women are not looking to be taken care of, they stand on their own independently while staying wide open to romantic possibilities.  They have a great attitude about dating and meeting new people even if they are coming out of a bad marriage.  For the most part they are physically appealing, some are very athletic and others are open to trying various sports and adventures.  Sometimes women come in and I think I can’t believe this woman hasn’t been snapped up already…lucky me to be able to perhaps be the one who finds her a mate.

My men are also the cream of the crop from the Front Range.  They are accomplished, sincere, focused and genuinely interested in finding a mate.  A small percentage have never been married (but may have been in long relationships), a few widowers and divorced gentlemen.  They all enjoy Colorado activities, traveling and adventures.  They are true Colorado men who are fit, active and open to all possibilities.  When an especially “marketable” guy comes in I think he’s going to be snapped up right away.

Sometimes clients meet the one they marry right away and for others it takes longer for the right person to show up thus my open-ended contract gives all my clients the gift of time.  Of the 624 singles who have married through Bon Jour Matchmaking Service most married right away and the rest were patient until that perfect match arrived and felt it was worth the wait!  Our conversation(s) prior to joining the service prepare(s) clients to be realistic with their expectations.  My clients do not get burned out on a bunch of bogus dates, they are carefully matched by their criteria on both sides of the match making it the most successful.  Kudos to my clientele who have not yet met “the one” but who are patiently part of the service so when that “one” comes in they are here and open!

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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