Although I’ve alluded to it in several posts I thought I would just directly explain what Bon Jour Matchmaking both provides to all clients and what is expected in return.  It’s not that I’m a control freak, it’s that I know all of my clients personally and individually so I know how they think.  Isn’t that what you want from a personal Matchmaker?

This is a total collaboration meaning from the very first time you call me I start noticing your grammar, whether your outgoing voice mail contains some part of your name (making it easier for a match to know they’ve called the right number) instead of something automated that could be anyone.

Whether you’ve paid attention to what I’ve explained multiple times in this website that if you wish to be quoted a fee you need to CALL me as there are several questions I need to ask that combine for your personal investment fee.  Because there is dating coaching with Bon Jour Matchmaking it is important for me to gauge whether you are receptive to suggestions and follow directions.

There is a specific time span in which clients need to contact me and each other when matched as well as a specific time frame in which you need to meet.  The reason for this is that you can only stay excited about meeting someone new for a limited period before you either get turned off by not hearing from them or jump to the conclusion they are not interested and/or unreliable.  A person’s enthusiasm for the meeting is most important and that can only be maintained for a fairly short time span.

I want you to be successful in this matchmaking endeavor.  Along that line, knowing what turns all of my clients on and off, I really try to work with you very personally tweaking what you write about that will interest them so that you will stand out and the types of photos that are the most favorable.  Your success in this Denver matchmaking service is not based on me, but primarily on you and how open you are, who you choose to meet, utilizing suggestions and being overall dependable, unlike clients in other services and the Internet dating sites.

I decline more singles than I accept based on the above and what I glean from our initial interactions.  Thus making Bon Jour a service with reliable clients who are serious about their romantic futures and a Matchmaker who is on call 7 days a week and holidays, returns calls and emails very quickly and never shies away from even a stressful interaction with clients.  A true collaboration with both client and Matchmaker holding up their responsibility to reach their goal.

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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