Over my 28 (as of 1/1/17) year career I’ve seen it all.  What I have seen that I didn’t anticipate is that although I can introduce people to great clients with lots of potential, they themselves can derail what could have been a successful lifetime match.

Believe it or not I’ve found this mostly with women.  Single women tend to fill up their lives with a variety of activities, as well they should, however if you hire a Denver matchmaker one would presume you are serious about finding love and do everything you can to create an environment for this to flourish.

I have found in a handful of cases that these particular female clients refuse to make room in their lives or curtail some of these activities to cultivate a relationship.  Thus my men become frustrated and disappointed and move on.  Although I have given feedback to these women they refuse to make any changes.  Thus they have been unsuccessful.  That is totally their own responsibility.  I can introduce a client to wonderful people but if they don’t put forth the effort they will not succeed.

It’s the same with any client who does not listen to the feedback but expects a relationship to work without any flexibility on their part or any concessions.

On the other hand, the people who listen to my suggestions, pay attention to the feedback and make a genuine effort are the clients who do find success!

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to http://bonjourms.com

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