For some reason when singles consider working with a matchmaker or joining a local Denver matchmaking service their expectations are almost totally unrealistic. Do you use the stock market? It goes up and down and is never a sure thing. Neither is investing in real estate as we saw in the last few years. You join fitness clubs and don’t lose weight or get in shape. And the list goes on…
But when people hire matchmakers they expect a guarantee. Why is that? You are usually considering this because other avenues have not worked. They didn’t give you a guarantee and didn’t work. Neither can a matchmaker. You come with your own criteria, preferences and baggage. Those three things totally effect your success or failure. They are yours so you need to own them and not blame Denver dating or matchmaking services for your lack of success.
You will do yourself a big favor if you stop having over-the-top expectations when using local services. In the 34 years I’ve been matchmaking there have been clients who I was sure would be successful and weren’t, while others who I was not sure of married. Of all the businesses you can use this one has the least predictability. All I can do is my best to achieve your goal with your assistance.
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