If you read through the bulk of the reviews of many Denver dating services and Denver matchmakers you will see a consistent theme. That the people who used them were not introduced to people who fulfilled their criteria and preferences. That is constant across the board…except for Bon Jour Matchmaking Service. Don’t think there’s even one review stating anything like that!
So, after 29 years and an established clientele and as a REAL professional Denver Matchmaker, the fact that I interview every single client allows me to know without a doubt the types of qualities my clients are searching for in a mate. That is TOTALLY dictated by the clients, I HAVE ALMOST NOTHING TO DO WITH IT! To achieve what they have hired me to do I need to have the types of clients who fit their requested criteria. So when people call who are outside of that and I know that emphatically, it would be unethical for me to accept them as a client. Unethical both for my current clients and for a prospective client. Is that a really tough concept to grasp???? It seems so…
Yes, during the FREE phone consultation I will ask questions to qualify you just as you will ask to qualify me. But I don’t make the rules of who is and is not a fit. That is almost strictly done by my clients. Of course if I perceive that we are not a good match or that you are not grasping the concept in the way I need you to I will decline to work together. That is why Bon Jour does not have reviews like the other services about clients’ criteria and preferences not being followed.
My own criteria is whether you “get it”…the structure, philosophy, concept and whether you and I will work well together to achieve your goal. So there are a myriad of reasons someone may not be a fit…if I accepted everyone who called I’d be a millionaire ten times over, which I’m not. That is not my goal. I am not driven by money but by the success of my clients which has shown over these 29 years!.