Here is some good advice to keep in mind when someone is interested in you that you are not interested in. Whether it be dating apps, internet dating sites, Denver matchmaking services or Denver matchmakers this advice is useful.

Be honest, kind and direct. Be a grown up. Do not play with someone when they are trying to date you and you are not interested. Tell them you are not interested in that way although you are flattered. There just is not a romantic chemistry.

That happened to me a fair number of times during my dating experiences and in several of the cases they didn’t want to take no for an answer. Sadly, if that’s the case things can become uncomfortable and contentious. But if they do then you’ve made the right decision. That person needs to respect your feelings when you are being honest with them. It’s the right thing to do.

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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