…Moreover, the permitting of a more extended contract until the right person is met allows for a more fruitful partnership. Many messages applaud Michele’s excellent advice and communication skills, describing her as “caring” and “professional” because she gives her opinions genuinely and shows commitment. Clients appreciate the service’s reasonable contract terms and its impressive preconditioning …
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THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN DATING SERVICES AND MATCHMAKERS
Most people do not know or understand the difference between the two. BIG difference! DATING SERVICES: Sell you a package of dates (ala dating service). Or they promise a certain number of dates during your contract, which is usually a limited timed contract. MATCHMAKERS: Really should offer an open-ended contract as you never know when …
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BIGGEST ASPECT OF BON JOUR IS THE COACHING!
My coaching is based on a few factors. One is my own extensive dating experience and what I’ve learned from that. Another is my clients’ dating experiences which further educates me and finally the direct feedback I receive from your match(es). Some people have a perception of themselves a certain way and that’s how they …
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YOU CAN COUNT ON BON JOUR MATCHMAKING
You can count on Bon Jour Matchmaking NOT to sell my clients out! Several times a year I receive either calls or emails from domestic “matchmakers” who took peoples’ money knowing they have no clients to introduce them to. Consequently, they contact matchmakers in those states asking them to “pimp out” their clients to fulfill …
HERE WE GO AGAIN…
New “Matchmakers” Who Solicit From Established Services Frequently I receive either phone calls or emails from new “matchmakers” either in other states who took money from people without having any clients in Colorado to set them up with or locally…consequently they contact local, established matchmakers looking for us to pimp out our clients to fulfill …
NOW I TOTALLY GET WHAT CLIENTS REFER TO AS A WASTE OF TIME DATING APPS
I have so many singles call me who have tried many dating apps and express frustration and more. Years ago, I tried the online dating sites myself and found they left something to be desired. So, I thought I would go on an app now and see exactly what these singles are talking about. OMG!!! …
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BEWARE…WHEN SEARCHING FOR A MATCHMAKING SERVICE
With 36+ years of experience in the matchmaking profession, I can tell you what types of matchmaking services should be avoided right off the bat. Services that do not post their fees: There are a few reasons why a service does not post their fees on their website. High priced services; high pressure services that …
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SOMETIMES EVEN AN ETHICAL MATCHMAKER CAN’T WIN
As I’ve explained in several previous posts, I turn many people down if I don’t feel they fit what my clients have set forth for their criteria and preferences. Also, if I find them combative in the FREE phone consultation. My feeling is, if you don’t like my structure, or whatever, don’t call and argue …
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BON JOUR MATCHMAKING STILL GOING STRONG
While other local Denver matchmaking and dating services are going under in this economy due to their excessive fees, limited contracts and high overhead, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service in my 36th year of creating lifelong marriages is still going strong! Regardless of how the economy is all over the place and there are higher fees …
LEARN TO BE APPRECIATIVE
In the past 6 months I’ve had many people call for Bon Jour Matchmaking. In many of the cases I had to either turn people down because they did not fit what my clientele is searching for, or because I didn’t feel that I could meet their criteria. In some cases I asked them to …