The initial interview is the time when we get to know each other both through the questions on the questionnaire as well as the information in-between the questions that we share. This is when we form the basis of our relationship and get started on your journey to meet like-minded professional singles. Based on the …
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Over the 33 years I’ve been matchmaking, one of my best attributes now is the ability to listen carefully. To follow my clients’ preferences and criteria and most importantly not to make decisions FOR them but rather WITH them. Those qualities only come with years of experience in the business of professional matchmaking. Over all …
Very often when people contact me at Bon Jour Matchmaking one of the questions they ask is what is my success rate. My success rate has everything to do with you as a client. If you turn down everyone who would like to meet you, don’t select people to meet who are the best prospects (which …
According to a 2013 Questionnaire, Denver Singles Responded Like This… Would you date or not date someone based on their job? Generally singles said it depends on the job and how much time it would allow for the relationship. Mostly they want to meet someone who has passion for their career. Is it polite to …
Which Do You Prefer? Are you the type of person who falls for charm and charisma and lives to regret it? Those charismatic charmers are often called scammers. I have a relative who is very, very charismatic, however once he’s “got” you he’s like a snake and will bite you the minute you are off …
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Every week I receive calls from singles who have used or spoken to other local Denver matchmaking services. What shocks me every time is the few questions these people ask the other services. Maybe because I conduct at least a 1 hour preliminary phone consultation they think of more questions to ask me…I don’t know. …
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After you have read through this site somewhat you should understand that I am a singular matchmaker who has met and interviewed every client face to face. I work alone with each client, there are no others in this service working with clients. How could I possibly matchmake if I hadn’t met and interviewed every …
Hopefully by this time, the 33rd anniversary of the service, as well as the 11th year for this website, most everything you should want to know has been answered somewhere on here. Perhaps even multiple times. I’ve tried to keep things direct and concise as I, myself, am not a big reader and appreciate when …
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It’s really more than just that. I just hung up after an hour call with a guy whose ego is so large that he told me how I should operate my matchmaking service to make more money. He never got that it isn’t about the money for me! It’s about my clients’ success. At 43 …
I do not decide exclusively upon my own criteria whether we should work together. Primarily that has been decided by my current clients who have been very specific as to their preferences and criteria…just like you would be if you were a client. Bon Jour is the ONLY Denver matchmaking service that does not have …
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