There are so many valuable aspects to Bon Jour Matchmaking before and during your courtship with that special person.

They are listed throughout this site and if you’ve used other local services or even researched them these differences are glaringly obvious.

When considering any service it is a 50/50 proposition. As a client you should be realistic in that your participation, keeping info up-to-date, your feedback, your interaction with clients and YOUR choice in Bon Jour as to who you meet (and don’t meet) is heavily on your side of the equation. It’s NOT just about writing a check and then being a non-participant.

In Bon Jour you first and foremost have an open-ended contract. So far the longest I’ve worked with someone is 11 years and she did end up marrying a client at the end of that time. If it had taken longer for the right person to…

If you’ve read Google reviews of Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, you will see repeated references to my selection of clients.

I conduct FREE telephone consultations for at least an hour (often longer), unless we discover in short order that this is not the right service for you. The first thing I do is qualify that you fit what my current clientele is seeking. That gives both sides the opportunity for a successful outcome.

Then I address any questions you have from reading through this website.

I start evaluating a potential client from the very beginning, how they contact me, their follow through or lack thereof, their grammar, etc. For example, this last Saturday night at 8:30 I received a voicemail from a woman. She asked me to call her to explain Bon Jour. My business hours are 7 days a week, 9am to 7pm. So right there I see…

Born and raised in Wilmington, Delaware I moved to Denver in 1981. I had never been here, did not know anyone here and did not have a job. Just showed up bright eyed and bushy tailed…

For the first few years I had a variety of jobs but primarily was a legal secretary. Excited to be in this big city with so many options and people, I dated veraciously which in hindsight may have been my mistake. After 8 marriage proposals I never really met the “right” one for me…so I know that the “numbers game” is just that…a game not worth playing.

As a lifelong insomniac I realized that working specific hours was making it worse so decided to start my own business with my own hours. The only service then was GE and as a single myself looked at their structure which was overpriced and impersonal and decided…

I had a guy phone me for my service. He left a message and I needed to call him back, but before doing so I decided to do a background check. Regardless of what I find on that I always call people back out of courtesy, even when I know I’m going to decline to work with them.

What I found on the background check, although several years ago, was Rape, Sodomy, public intoxication, DUIs. The first 2 had been dismissed, but that may mean he had a good attorney. Obviously, I was going to decline to work with him.

So we were talking and he has used Kelleher and Associates who he paid $29,000 to, who claimed to have clients in Denver but didn’t. Then he hired Tawkify for $9,000 for 1 year. They also did nothing. So, with each he kept telling me that he could have done…

The email below clearly shows my coaching and a brand new client who hired me specifically for that, who clearly does not want a relationship either with me or my clients to be successful: (the names have been disguised to protect the innocent and that CLIENT)

Dear CLIENT,
I received the email above from K this morning. So…here is a list of all of the things you have, according to her that turned her off and put me off:

1. Sent the answers to the questions inside an email without the questions when told to attach it so it could be printed out and attached to your profile;
2. Sent the total opposite pictures of what I not only asked you to send, but showed you on the computer at the time of your interview. Got into a fight with me when I kept trying to explain what type of…

Which Do You Prefer?

Are you the type of person who falls for charm and charisma and lives to regret it?  Those charismatic charmers are often called scammers.  I have a relative who is very, very charismatic, however once he’s “got” you he’s like a snake and will bite you the minute you are off guard. Yes, they are wonderful to chat with but beware of doing business with them or getting romantically involved.

When you are doing business and making a financial investment whether it be with a financial advisor or a personal Matchmaker, is it more important to you that they have a “good bedside manner” even if they are not trustworthy?  There are many business owners like that in all categories of business who have left a trail of very pissed off people behind them.  In the long run the truth is the most important component regardless…