My coaching is based on a few factors. One is my own extensive dating experience and what I’ve learned from that. Another is my clients’ dating experiences which further educates me and finally the direct feedback I receive from your match(es). Some people have a perception of themselves a certain way and that’s how they …
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As I’ve explained in several previous posts, I turn many people down if I don’t feel they fit what my clients have set forth for their criteria and preferences. Also, if I find them combative in the FREE phone consultation. My feeling is, if you don’t like my structure, or whatever, don’t call and argue …
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This is NOT a sales call. It is merely an exchange of information to see whether you fit the preferences and criteria of my current clientele AND whether Bon Jour fits what you are looking for. I ask how you found me so I can assess which types of venues appeal to singles searching for …
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November 8, 2024…I have learned many lessons over this 36-year career. The reason, I’m told by my clients, that my service is so successful, is that I am so discerning who to accept as a client. Over the years my assessment has not always been correct, and I have learned from those mistakes. I have …
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When deciding to use a matchmaking service one of the most important considerations is are you looking to “date” or to “mate”. You should feel that your investment is in your future, starting a brand-new life with someone who you have chosen who has chosen you. If you are truly serious about finding love, then …
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When you read reviews of other Denver matchmaking services, they often state that they contacted the service multiple times after joining with no response. You will NEVER see that kind of review about Bon Jour Matchmaking Service or me! Conversely, I expect all of my clients to respond in a timely manner in that I …
I have been asked on the rare occasion whether someone who is at the higher end of the age range will “age out” when they reach the highest age. So, I thought I would address that… NO, it IS an open-ended contract. That said, you have to realize whether you are male or female that …
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When you first contact me to ask questions about my service, that is when we both start evaluating whether my structure, philosophy and personality fit for you and I assess whether you are someone my clientele would be interested in meeting, truly understand my philosophy, whether you are realistic, your dating attitude and whether we …
Recently I’ve had the experience with several new clients when they initially called asking what an “open-ended contract” meant. Other Denver matchmaking services may refer to it as a “Lifetime Contract” or a “Platinum Package” and charge you a lot extra to have that benefit. EVERY client of Bon Jour has an open-ended contract! That’s …
When hiring a Denver Matchmaker you share the responsibility with the Matchmaker to work together, put your best foot forward, have an amicable relationship with that Matchmaker and be realistic in your expectations. If you join a Denver matchmaking service it is their responsibility to show your profile to the most appropriate candidates. Not to …
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