Every week I receive calls from singles who have used or spoken to other local Denver matchmaking services. What shocks me every time is the few questions these people ask the other services. Maybe because I conduct at least a 1 hour preliminary phone consultation they think of more questions to ask me…I don’t know. …
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Recently I’ve had the experience with several new clients when they initially called asking what an “open-ended contract” means. Other Denver matchmaking services may refer to it as a “Lifetime Contract” or a “Platinum Package” and charge you a lot extra to have that benefit. EVERY client of Bon Jour Matchmaking Service has an open-ended …
Rather than feeling like people perceive you as desperate or a loser, you should really feel that because you are so special and have so much going for you that you’ve chosen to have the exclusive representation of a professional matchmaker! Working with a Denver matchmaker is not something you should feel embarrassed about. Do …
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Singles hire a matchmaker because they are having trouble of some kind in their interactions with dating. Yes, it is to find the right person who has as yet been elusive, but there may be many things you yourself are doing that derail, curtail or just plain prevent successful long term relationships. One glaring example …
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When you call for your FREE phone consultation you may ask how many people you will meet. First of all that is primarily up to you. When I show you profiles at the time of your interview if you do not select anyone that is your prerogative. If once you are on file as a client you turn down …
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I do not decide exclusively upon my own criteria whether we should work together. Primarily that has been decided by my current clients who have been very specific as to their preferences and criteria…just like you would be if you were a client. Bon Jour is the ONLY Denver matchmaking service that does not have …
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I am hearing from Denver singles on a regular basis how disappointed they are in the local matchmaking services they’ve chosen. It is always the same reasons…too expensive, no information or photos of prospective matches, matches who are not even close to the criteria set forth initially/ongoing and a lack of interaction with the owner/matchmakers …
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Born and raised in Wilmington, Delaware I moved to Denver in 1981. I had never been here, did not know anyone here and did not have a job. Just showed up bright eyed and bushy tailed…like any 25 year old. From 25 to 33 I had a variety of jobs but primarily was a legal …
Which Do You Prefer? Are you the type of person who falls for charm and charisma and lives to regret it? Those charismatic charmers are often called scammers. I have a relative who is very, very charismatic, however once he’s “got” you he’s like a snake and will bite you the minute you are off …
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If you call the company and ask a lot of questions that they will not answer on the phone move on! If you ask their fees and they will not quote them over the phone move on! If they are insistent that you come into their office or meet them in a coffee shop or hotel …
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