In the past 6 months I’ve had many people call for Bon Jour Matchmaking. In many of the cases I had to either turn people down because they did not fit what my clientele is searching for, or because I didn’t feel that I could meet their criteria. In some cases I asked them to …
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YOU CAN’T WIN THEM ALL AS A DENVER MATCHMAKER FOR 35 YEARS
I meet and represent 100s of clients a year and have been for 35 years. Realistically there will inevitably be a client here or there who is disappointed. Either because they really didn’t understand the process or that this is a matchmaking service NOT a dating service. Others because they got in their own way. …
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MATCHMAKING IS A TRUE PARTNERSHIP
Bon Jour Matchmaking’s philosophy is and always has been that we work as a team. I am a facilitator, confidant, coach and matchmaker who has interviewed every single client face-to-face. As such I have a personal relationship with each client assisting me in choosing the best potential matches for them. BUT I do not make …
BON JOUR MATCHMAKING’S SUCCESS IS ATTRIBUTED TO MY CLIENTS
A business cannot last and succeed for 35 years without intense scrutiny of potential clients. My priority in matchmaking is not to see how much money I can accrue. Matchmaking is not what I do…matchmaking is who I am. Potential clients don’t realize that I start evaluating them from the first contact they make with …
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TAKEN FROM…THE LOST ART OF MATCHMAKING AND WHY MILLIONAIRE MATCHMAKER PATTI STANGER IS A FRAUD
Published in Venus In Heels, January 6, 2011 My big problem with Patti’s system of matchmaking has to do with her inability to spot true magnetism between two people that’s deeper than just hormone-based attraction. Instead she’s bound by rules that only apply to the superficial set, who aren’t in search of a long-term partner …
COLORADO’S OLDEST MATCHMAKING SERVICE CREDITS IT’S CLIENTS FOR THEIR SUCCESS!
Many times when people call to inquire about Bon Jour Matchmaking, they ask my success rate. My success rate is completely and totally attributed to the collaboration between my clients and myself. I have learned over these 35 years not to make the decision for my clients. I’ve had many clients marry who I would …
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MICHELE, WHAT IS YOUR MATCHMAKING SUCCESS RATE?
I am often asked that question…the complete answer is…it’s not just about me. There are 2 people in a relationship. I coach, suggest, share information and listen. But ultimately, it’s up to those 2 people to make their relationship work. There have been many instances early on when, because of a lack of communication usually, …
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ARE YOUR CRITERIA REALISTIC and IN YOUR BEST INTEREST IN MATCHMAKING SERVICES?
I have 2 male clients who turn down everyone who selects to meet them by saying they aren’t good looking enough. I know that one of them is comparing everyone against his ex-wife (who cheated on him and left him). I always say, this is a matchmaking service, not a modeling agency. I recently presented …
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Should You Invest in a Denver Dating Service or a Denver Matchmaking Service?
When deciding to use a matchmaking service one of the most important considerations is are you looking to “date” or to “mate”. You should feel that your investment is in your future, starting a brand-new life with someone who you have chosen who has chosen you. If you are truly serious about finding love, then …
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BON JOUR CLIENTS LOVE MY SELECTIVITY
If you’ve read Google reviews of Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, you will see repeated references to my selection of clients. I conduct FREE telephone consultations for at least an hour (often longer), unless we discover in short order that this is not the right service for you. The first thing I do is qualify that …
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