AS A DENVER MATCHMAKER, RELATIONSHIP COACH, IMAGE CONSULTANT AND DATING GURU MICHELE FIELDS STUDYS LIKE A GRAD STUDENT
Turn on the TV nowadays and you can see no less than six shows devoted to dating. Although Michele has been a matchmaker for 25 years there is still much to learn about how singles think and choose each other. So Michele makes it her business to watch any and all of these shows to see how both men and women zero in on who they select.
It is also important to study what behavior turns both sexes off and how, many times, they miss the best choice and select people who are doing unkind and nasty things behind the scenes. Some singles want to be told about a contestant acting up and appreciate the honesty of the contestant who confides this. Others turn on the messenger. Have you heard the phrase, “Don’t shoot the messenger!”?
An example of taste is on “The Choice” last night the “Situation” was one of the male contestants. Out of the four male contestants the other three have actually accomplished alot in their lives. The “Situation” is on Jersey Shore…so not so much. Yet three women chose him and he was the first of the four to fill has “plate” or whatever it is. Really???? That’s their first choice over men who consisted of a celebrity chef, a pro bowl football player and a singer, really???? It’s not like he’s drop dead gorgeous so they overlooked his lack of accomplishments. But live and learn. Many women make mistakes like that and live to regret them.
So Michele goes on watching and learning as well as being confounded by choices like the example above so that she can more understand the choices her own clients make and in her way guide them in a more suitable direction.