All one needs to do is watch the Bachelor or Bachelorette to see that dating is NOT a numbers game.  In fact, if you are serious about finding love, dating is not a “game” at all.  To “play” with dating is to lose in your ultimate goal and burn yourself out in the process!

Those TV shows always start with 25 singles for the Bachelor(ette) to choose from and they slowly eliminate who doesn’t fit.  But although these shows have been televised for at least 10 seasons and there have been literally tons of both single men and single women to pick from, only about 4 of the couples have actually married and lasted.  (Actually I’m not sure it’s even 4).  So clearly it is NOT a numbers game.  You can choose to play it that way and like the Bachelor(ette) you will lose, unless fate intervenes and you get lucky.

My philosophy is when you join Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, to take your time and find the few people who really fit for you on both sides of the match.  That is why I select the files (with pictures and a questionnaire) that you view because I know all of the clients,  but YOU decide who resonates with you by viewing their photos and reading the extensive profiles.  I purposely charge a fee per introduction so that if each person is willing to pay that fee on both sides of the match, they are quite sure this is a good fit.

As I’ve said many times on this site, all of the 313 couples who have married through my service married either the FIRST or SECOND person they met in Bon Jour.  As far as I know they are all still married!  Over a period of 25 years that is no accident.  So if you are REALLY serious about finding love that lasts consider contacting me at 303-756-8106 to discuss your personal situation.

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to http://bonjourms.com

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