Shortly moving into my 33rd year as a Denver Matchmaker it becomes more and more clear that this service is not a dictatorship, but a mutual collaboration between client and Matchmaker.  Looking back over these years I realize that is exactly why it has been so successful.

The initial interview is a give and take between us, a clarification of your answers and a display of your taste in a match.  As well as the fact that I select the profiles you view based on both your preferences and the other clients’ preferences and you decide (with my guidance if you want it) who appeals to you.  You make that decision based on a multitude of information and photographs.  You put those profiles in the order you wish to meet them.

Although the interviewing process is very in-depth I continue to learn your personality, preferences and idiosyncrasies both through the passing of time and our interaction but even more so through feedback from your matches.  There may be some behavior you consistently do in relationships that is stopping them from progressing.  Through feedback I can share that with you and if you wish, you can work to change that behavior.  Remember, I can introduce you to outstanding people but if you continue to make the same mistakes you will have the same outcome.  So my unique position of knowing both sides is the best way to assist you in growing and correcting behavior that in the past has sabotaged potential relationships.

All clients agree and are expected to keep their information up-to-date.  This is not the Internet where you can post 10 year old pictures or even 3 year old pics.  If your weight changes, whether up or down, you need to update that with me and share new pictures.  If you grow facial hair or shave it, again, you need to share new pictures.  Those are the kind of things that set a matchmaking service apart from the Internet dating sites.  Besides all of the felons found on the Internet services.

I am proud to say that I have such a well educated, interesting, generous of spirit and stable clientele.  If you feel that you will fit in with this service and you’ve either tried others or never tried any, please go to Posts To Read Before Joining Any Matchmaking Service and read some of those.  Because Bon Jour Matchmaking is so well known and popular it is also very busy.  I am extra careful of who I feel I am able to work with, who fits in with this established clientele and who will be cooperative.  If you feel that describes you give me a call and let’s see 303-756-8106.


Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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