Sadly there are services in Denver who charge only the men for their services and have “cattle calls” for “gorgeous” women to place with these men.  The fee is exorbitant from what I’ve seen and been told.  Men have stated that they don’t appreciate being the only ones who pay while the women, who are not vetted, just show up as if it were an interview for a modeling job.  These men have stated they want women who also are making a financial investment in love.

Then there are the Denver matchmaking and dating coaches who matchmake the men and coach the women, again with a pool of women to select from for their male clients.  To me that implies both that the women are making all of the mistakes and don’t know what they’re doing while the men get away with just paying a fee and selecting from a pool of women.

After 26 years in the matchmaking business and seeing many, many, many services come and go, I don’t understand why, especially professional Denver singles, wouldn’t hire a Matchmaker who does it all.  A professional who isn’t partial to one sex or the other by only charging, in most cases the men, a Matchmaker who coaches all of her clients and actually matchmakes.  THAT is what a professional Matchmaker does.  Not just a little of this and a little of that and charges one sex but not the other, etc.  Neither sex is getting the services they should.  AND don’t pay a fee more than $5,500+ thinking that you will get more personalized service or that their clients are more high end.  In all the cases I’ve seen, read and heard about the exact opposite is true.  That extra money is going towards overhead, mostly advertising, not at all towards the clients’ services.

Please read POSTS TO READ BEFORE JOINING ANY DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICE before deciding which direction to go in.  I feel you might find that page very helpful.

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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