For 33 years Bon Jour Matchmaking has always shared pictures of clients along with the 6-page profile to prospective matches. I have always felt that the more information you have to make the decision of your interest level, the better…to a point. Stopping short of getting into sexual, health or financial information.

And consistently, for 33 years, clients get more anxious about their pictures than anything else. My motto at Bon Jour is “this isn’t the internet or apps”. The pictures have to present you as you are at that point in time (and updated when changes occur), be snapshots and be a minimum of 6 pictures. Enough to allow a prospect to see different styles and personality to assist in their decision.

Soooo, even professional models take hundreds of pictures to get just a very few of the best. It’s THAT simple. Take lots of pictures and send me the best ones.

I always share with new matchmaking clients some examples of current clients who have pictures that have good feedback and success so that they know exactly the types of pictures that will benefit them.

For the most part it’s one time endeavor at the beginning of our partnership with updates as things change. It’s NO BIG DEAL…

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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