MARRY THE FIRST OR SECOND MATCH?

What does that mean? Throughout the 25 year history of Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, the majority of the 313 couples who married sealed the deal with either their first or second introduction.  NO that doesn’t mean you HAVE to marry the first or second person you meet.  My goal is to be so discriminating in …

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VETERAN MATCHMAKER WARNS OF REVIEWS OF MATCHMAKING OR DATING SERVICES

How to Interpret Negative Yelp Reviews of Businesses Owning a matchmaking service is a slippery slope…you are managing people’s hopes and dreams as well as egos and expectations.  Many people who join a service have higher criteria for the people they meet in the service than they would in the “real” world.  So they may …

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ROMANCE INSPIRING COLORADO WINTER ESCAPES

If you want to bring a new relationship closer this winter, consider any of the suggestions below with a new romance or a long-term companion.  Invite someone you wish you had a relationship with and see if these inspiring settings help cultivate that union.  As a Matchmaker I can tell you that creating new adventures …

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DENVER MATCHMAKER APPROACHES 24 YEARS

MICHELE FIELDS…24 YEARS OF MATCHMAKING EXPERIENCE Bon Jour Matchmaking Service started and continues to be a hands-on, old-fashioned, collaborative matchmaking service just as it was at its inception almost 24 years ago.  There are many businesses that should and can become automated and Internet-based, but matchmaking, in my opinion, is not one of them.  Of course …

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DENVER MATCHMAKER HAS A BEHAVIORAL AGREEMENT WITH HER CLIENTS

What is a Behavioral Agreement? I’ve heard complaints from clients who have used both the Internet dating sites and local dating/matchmaking services that the behavior of people they have met was inappropriate even though in some cases they’ve paid thousands of dollars for the service.  I implemented this Behavioral Agreement for every client of Bon Jour Matchmaking from day one …

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MICHELE “THE MATCHMAKER” FIELDS…Denver’s Heart Hunter

Denver Singles Hire a Heart Hunter The Heart Hunter is a new category of professional advisor who works with upper echelon professionals in the same way a Head Hunter finds them a perfect career match. Today’s professional Denver singles hire head hunters to assist them in finding the perfect position in a company to fit …

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DENVER’S OLD FASHIONED MATCHMAKER STAYS TRUE TO HER CALLING

The Denver singles community may be used to local services who conduct interactions primarily by e-mail and text, but as a dating coach and matchmaker I encourage clients to pick up the phone, not only to communicate with me, but also with each other. When conducting entire relationships, whether business or personal, strictly by e-mail and text a lot may be misinterpreted and …

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DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICES FAIL

The failure of some Denver Dating/Matchmaking Services continues to present itself to me through clients who have fallen for a slick sales pitch.  According to my clients who have used certain other local Denver dating or Denver matchmaking services, following are things to BEWARE of: 1. Interviews you in a public forum, i.e. a noisy …

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DENVER MATCHMAKING SERVICE SHOCKER…MEN ARE MORE COMMUNCATIVE THAN WOMEN

Here’s a shocker…women are known for being communicative and men not so much.  This Denver Matchmaker of 24 years has found the exact opposite! I have found women to have high expectations and often not to communicate changes that I may need to update their profiles.  They are also less apt to show appreciation for …

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