626 Denver singles have tied the knot through Bon Jour Matchmaking Service.  Thousands of professional Denver singles have tried Bon Jour since 1989 and there has developed a clear profile of the clients who marry.  There are two important components: patience and realism.  It’s that simple.

A client who is most apt to find a mate is one who has reasonable and realistic expectations and criteria.  Who is not looking to play a numbers game, hoping for the best.  But takes their time with Michele the Matchmaker choosing the most compatible and appealing matches.  Someone who dates within their age range, not 15-20 years younger.  Someone who is not looking for a “model” or perfection.   A mature client who wants to relate to their partner on all levels, not looking for a cougar set-up or sugar daddy scenario.

Clients who are realistic about themselves and what they have to offer have the most successful experience.  Who realize that this match will probably and hopefully be their last.  The person you choose for your latter years is often not the person you would choose in your 20’s or 30’s.  Your criteria shifts and should shift with maturity.  No gold diggers here or older men looking for arm candy.  This is not the service for those agendas!

When deciding to hire a professional Matchmaker after you’ve tried the Internet dating sites, social groups, party groups, franchise dating services, etc. you should also decide that the way you are going to select potential mates will be different.  If you go about selecting people in the same way you always have, then choosing to work with a matchmaker is not going to make any difference.  Different venue, same “MO”.  If you are going to approach the goal trusting a matchmaker, you should go about the process differently than you have been.  THEN you may find the success you seek.  Doesn’t that make sense to you?

The clients who marry are fit, well educated, well rounded people who are Denver singles who genuinely offer themselves with an open mind and an open heart and one of the most important qualities…patience.  Bon Jour Matchmaking Service is not a dating service but an old fashioned matchmaking service.

Published by Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

I have been a professional Matchmaker for 34 years in Denver, CO. My service, Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, has facilitated 300+ marriages of 600+ Colorado Front Range singles through hand holding, personalized matchmaking. For more information go to

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