Author Archives: Michele "the Matchmaker" Fields

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
What does that mean? Throughout the 32 year history of Bon Jour Matchmaking Service, the majority of the 300+ couples who married sealed the deal with either their first or second introduction.  NO that doesn’t mean you HAVE to marry the first or second person you meet.  My…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Bon Jour: One matchmaker who has interviewed EVERY client face-to-face/Local Services: Multiple “matchmakers” who only know the clients they’ve sold and have not met and interviewed all clients; Bon Jour: Every client is interviewed in the privacy of my office face-to-face/Local Services: Many of these do zoom interviews…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Open-ended contract…you are a client until you reach your goal; One Matchmaker who knows ALL of her clients; You are ONLY introduced to my clients who I’ve met personally, interviewed and who have had a background check; 33 years of experience in Colorado matchmaking; 300+ marriages; Feedback both positive and negative…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Recently I’ve had the experience with several new clients when they initially called asking what an “open-ended contract” meant.  Other Denver matchmaking services may refer to it as a “Lifetime Contract” or a “Platinum Package” and charge you a lot extra to have that benefit.  EVERY client of…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Now in my almost 34th year practicing matchmaking I’ve developed a new plan that can make you your investment fee back if the situation fits. After you become a client of this Denver matchmaking service, if you meet someone either in or outside the service and cultivate a long…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Every week I receive calls from singles who have used or spoken to other local Denver matchmaking services. What shocks me every time is the few questions these people ask the other services. Maybe because I conduct at least a 1 hour preliminary phone consultation they think of…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
I do not decide exclusively upon my own criteria whether we should work together.? Primarily that has been decided by my current clients who have been very specific as to their preferences and criteria…just like you would be if you were a client.? Bon Jour is the ONLY…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
I received a call from a gentleman the other week who explained that he had just spoken with a Denver dating coach/”matchmaker” who quoted him the following fees: For a 6 month contract $7500 If he should marry someone she introduces him to she receives a $25,000 bonus…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Something that my clients often thank me for which is not necessarily something I write a lot about is the quality of clients in Bon Jour. I so often have to decline working with people who I perceive from our conversation and/or interaction are not invested enough, communicative…

Originally posted on Bon Jour Matchmaking Service :
Like any business owner I periodically Google Denver matchmaking services to see what is going on in the Denver market.  Recently I’ve viewed two services that are only TWO years old that are charging more than I am after 25 years!  So I investigated further…are they offering services…