Which Do You Prefer? Are you the type of person who falls for charm and charisma and lives to regret it? Those charismatic charmers are often called scammers. I have a relative who is very, very charismatic, however once he’s “got” you he’s like a snake and will bite you the minute you are off …
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If you call the company and ask a lot of questions that they will not answer on the phone move on! If you ask their fees and they will not quote them over the phone move on! If they are insistent that you come into their office or meet them in a coffee shop or hotel …
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This information was taken directly from the VIDA website in 2020 (Those fees have probably increased since this posting): THE DENVER DATING COMPANY:https://kdvr.com/news/local/denver-singles-site-had-barely-any-women-on-it-lawsuit-claims/embed/#?secret=MXVyUZsDwo Just received a call from a woman who went in to do a consultation with them. She expressed that they were disorganized and lied about a number of things such as length of …
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I am very accomplished both in my matchmaking abilities based on my 35 years of matchmaking and the structure of this service. I didn’t purchase Bon Jour from someone else, I created it in 1989. I didn’t work for another service and then decide to steal their clients and start my own. This is and …
As I’ve written many times on this website, I turn down more potential clients (and income) than I accept. If I sense that this really is not what you are looking for in a service or potential relationship (doesn’t line up with my clientele) I would rather decline to work together than sign you and disappoint you. …
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When you call for your FREE phone consultation you may ask how many people you will meet. First of all that is primarily up to you. When I show you profiles at the time of your interview if you do not select anyone that is your prerogative. If once you are on file as a client you turn down …
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Over the 36 years I’ve been matchmaking, one of my best attributes now is the ability to listen carefully. To follow my clients’ preferences and criteria and most importantly not to make decisions FOR them but rather WITH them. Those qualities only come with years of experience in the business of professional matchmaking. Over all …
When Choosing a Matchmaking Service Consider: 1. Why haven’t I ever used a local dating/matchmaking service? 2. What has turned me off about Denver matchmaking services that I’ve either investigated or joined? 3. What does Bon Jour Matchmaking do differently? 4. What is my goal in using a personal matchmaker? 5. What is the difference between Internet …
Recently I’ve had the experience with several new clients when they initially called asking what an “open-ended contract” meant. Other Denver matchmaking services may refer to it as a “Lifetime Contract” or a “Platinum Package” and charge you a lot extra to have that benefit. EVERY client of Bon Jour has an open-ended contract! That’s …
I start evaluating everything about you from your first contact with me. If written I notice grammar, spelling, syntax and politeness. If by phone, attitude, philosophy (i.e., it’s a numbers game how many clients do you have?), grammar and our communication styles with each other. This is such a personal endeavor it is important that …
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